Long-distance relationships sometimes seem impossible, but we’re here to tell you that you can make yours work – it just takes some effort and communication. Here’s our take on long-distance relationships, with some of our best tips on dealing with one.
Create Reasonable Expectations
In a long-distance relationship, you don’t see each other as often as you would like. Living far apart can be frustrating, but try to have realistic expectations – and don’t take out that frustration on your partner.
Communication Is Key
Communication is at the core of every successful relationship, but especially in long-distance relationships. Be sure to reach out to your significant other regularly. Whether you talk to them over the phone, text, or video chat, you want to remain close despite the distance.
Honesty Is Everything
Honesty is always the best policy when it comes to long-distance relationships. If you feel insecure or jealous, speak up about it instead of keeping things hidden. Your partner will likely understand and support you.
Make Time for Each Other
Even though you’re separated physically, it’s essential to make time for each other in a long-distance relationship. Plan regular date nights, even if that means talking on the phone or video chatting. You should also visit each other as often as you can. This will keep the relationship alive and remind both of you why you’re doing this in the first place.
Plan for the Future
Establish a plan for the future. Set clear expectations regarding when and how you intend to close any distance between you and discuss how that could happen.
Don’t Give Up
Long-distance relationships can be challenging, but they’re certainly doable if you are both committed to making things work. With commitment on both ends, you can get through anything together!
Trust Each Other
Trust is key in any relationship, but it’s particularly vital when living apart. You’ll need to have faith that your partner will be honest with you, even though you can’t physically be with them.
Be Supportive
Be there for your partner emotionally and physically when they’re facing tough times. Make an effort to listen and offer assistance when they need it.
Be Patient
Long-distance relationships take time and effort. Don’t expect things to come together overnight. Keep working at it until you’re back together!
Is It Time to Let Go?
Here are some telltale signs that it might be time to end your long-distance relationship:
- The distance becomes a source of contention.
- One or both of you are looking for companionship outside of the relationship.
If any of these apply to you, it’s important to communicate how you feel with your partner and discuss these emotions together. Maybe they are experiencing similar discomfort, and you can work together to find a solution – or perhaps you will ultimately decide it’s time to part ways.
Do you have any tips for making a long-distance relationship work? Share them with us in the comments below!