Let’s face it: Life can be hectic, messy, and chaotic. Whether you’re single, married, have kids, have fur babies, have both, or have neither, life doesn’t slow down, let alone stop, so you can catch your breath. But sometimes, we must laugh, because who wants to miss out on all the positive and wonderful things? If this seems impossible, we have some pointers to help you stop taking life so seriously.
Silver Lining Check
No matter what happens in life, there always is a silver lining. Sometimes the answer is obvious; other times, not so much. But once we find a silver lining, like making the best of every situation, everything makes sense.
Take Time for Joy
Life is full of sadness and grief, but it’s also full of happy moments. It’s so important to take in all the beauty. Note everything about those moments: what you smell, feel, see, etc. You deserve these moments.
Remember, You Are Not Alone
It may sound cliché, but in good and bad times, it’s important to remember that you are not alone. Everyone experiences sorrow, happiness, joy, peace, conflict, and other feelings.
Don’t Compare Yourself to Others
As difficult as it is, we can’t compare ourselves to others in real life or on social media because it only makes us feel behind or not as successful. The next time you feel inadequate, remember what we just said: Everyone is just doing their best.
Figure Out a Way to Cope
Whether it’s grief, sadness, depression, or stress, figure out your best coping mechanism. Having a surefire way to cope will make even the most difficult times more bearable. And remember, you’ve survived 100% of your bad days. Just keep pushing forward.
Some People Will Love You; Some People Will Hate You
The sooner you learn and accept this, the better. It can be difficult, especially for people-pleasers, to come to terms with people not liking us for no reason, but don’t take it too seriously. It usually has everything to do with the other person and nothing to do with you.
Don’t Chase Perfection
In friendships, marriages, work, home, and family, perfection is not an option. Embrace imperfect chaos.
Remember: No One Gets Out Alive
Well, it’s true, isn’t it? When things feel heavy, remember that it’s not your job to fix everything. Life is extremely fleeting. The best advice we can give you is to spend it with those you love the most. They make it worth it.