Romantic relationships are hard work. But how do you know when the “hard work” turns into “too much”? Review these six signs that your relationship may be over. If any of them appear in your analysis, it may be time to call it quits.
You Don’t Care to Fight Anymore
Arguing with your significant other is normal and healthy. When you stop fighting altogether, bigger problems can occur. When you argue, it means you’re working on things as a couple. You’re communicating and finding solutions to issues. If either side gives up and doesn’t think there’s any point in fighting anymore, things may be taking a turn for the worst.
Physical Intimacy Is No Longer Appealing
Sex drives can fluctuate throughout a relationship. It’s okay if one of you is disinterested – if it’s temporary. However, if you or your partner have no desire to have sex, the relationship may be dwindling.
You Don’t Bother Sharing Good News With Your Partner
You don’t have to tell your partner every single good thing that happens throughout the day, but the big stuff counts. Withholding information can mean you don’t want your partner to know about your successes or triumphs. Or, it could mean that exciting news may not be worth discussing in the relationship.
Communication Gets Aggressive
Violence is a big no-no, both physically and emotionally. So if communication becomes aggressive to the point that you’re scared of your partner or constantly feeling put down, it may be time to cut the cord.
You No Longer Trust Them
Trust is one of the most significant foundations of any relationship. Once the fire of mistrust is lit, it can spread quickly – first with doubt and uncertainty, then with suspicion and anxiety. As time passes, uneasiness may fester, and fear may develop. The long strain of emotions can take a toll on you, and the relationship may no longer be worth it.
Both See Problems, But Both Are Not Seeking Help
If you and your partner have relationship problems you want to sort out, therapy is one of the best options. Refusal to speak with a professional can cause indifference in a relationship, especially if one person is working on themselves and the other isn’t.