For many of us, life is hectic, and it’s easy to get lost in the chaos. But even during a busy season, it’s important to make time for your friends! Here are a few ways to help ensure no one goes MIA.
Be Open and Honest About Your Schedule
Don’t assume everybody is so busy they don’t want to hear from you. Remind your friends that you’re thinking about them and want to see them. Let them know what your schedule looks like and ask the same of them (and it’s totally fine to have to make plans weeks in advance).
No Need to Impress
What you do with your friend doesn’t have to be some epic adventure. Go for a walk at a local park, find a quiet spot to sit and talk, or just watch TV together. Your time doesn’t have to be picture-perfect. The important thing is that you’re showing up.
Friends Don’t Ghost Friends
Leaving your friends on “read” makes you look unreliable and like you don’t care. Texting to say you’re busy and will get back to them later is better than ignoring them. If you do leave them on read (most of us have done it!), acknowledge that you did and apologize. Let them know why you’re so busy and when you will have time.
Season of No Spontaneity
As mentioned, there is no shame in making plans weeks in advance. This helps you organize your schedule, plan for the time you’ve set aside for friends, and prevent any last-minute canceling.
Effort Investor
Friends are awesome because the little things mean the most to them, such as check-in texts, sending them something for their birthdays, and following up on big life events.
Don’t Double Book
Never schedule a happy hour drink with one friend followed by a dinner date with another. Inevitably, time with one friend will get cut short. When making plans, really commit yourself and your time.
Be the To-Do List Friend
Heading to the grocery store for a few things? Maybe the mall for returns? An evening yoga class? Take a friend with you and squeeze in some quality time while knocking out some items on your to-do list. They may also have errands to run. Remember, it’s not what you’re doing; it’s who you’re spending time with.