Wondering if someone is into you? Unfortunately, reading cues and signals isn’t as simple as it sounds, especially if a lot of communication happens via text or over the internet. Luckily, there are some telltale signs that a person is into you. We’re here to fill you in!
Quick With their Response
If someone is interested in you, they will make an effort to show up when you need them, even if it’s just via text. A person who likes you will keep the line open and typically respond within minutes. If they’re in a meeting, they’re good about filling you in on what they’re up to, like being busy at work or driving.
Lean With It
Body language can tell us a lot while saying nothing at all. One of the major signs to look for is if they lean toward you when you’re together or engaged in a conversation. If the other person wants to be close to you, there’s a good chance they’re into you.
Pay Close Attention
If a person likes you, they pay attention to what you say. This happens naturally because we pay attention to things and people that are meaningful to you.
WYD
Say goodbye to 2 a.m. “WYD” texts or drinks at a local dive bar. A person who is into you will make an effort to plan a fun time with you. Think: tickets to a local show or gallery or trying out a new restaurant together.
Mirror, Mirror
Once a person becomes familiar with you, they unknowingly start mirroring you. This can include mirroring your posture, facial expressions, or your volume of voice. If most of your communication occurs electronically, it could consist of using the same spelling or emojis as you in conversation.
They Have Questions
About you, that is. Showing interest and asking questions about you shows that someone cares about you and wants to learn more about you.
Consistently Complimentary
That whole “If someone likes you, they’ll be mean to you” thing is a sham. If you’re an adult, and someone is into you, they will compliment you and make you feel secure. And compliments are not only skin deep; the more a person gets to know you, the more certain traits, such as your personality or mannerisms, become compliment-worthy to them.
Final Thoughts
The only way to truly know if someone likes you is to hear it directly from them. However, small signs can help determine their feelings. At the end of the day, if you’re unsure, take the first step yourself and ask!