Dating profiles, swiping left and right, and “hookup” culture all affect your dating life – whether you choose to believe it or not. Take it one step further and acknowledge that dating today highly depends on algorithms. But don’t throw in the towel just yet. We want you to be able to navigate the world of online dating with confidence. So, here are some tips!
Limit Your Time on the Apps
Spending too much time on dating apps with little progress can be frustrating. That’s why we suggest only opening Match, Bumble, Hinge, etc., a few times a week. Don’t stay on it constantly, wishing your matches would message you back. Getting back to a stranger may not be their priority, and it shouldn’t be yours.
Be Direct
Show your authentic self, and don’t be afraid to be blunt about your feelings. If you like to use emojis, go for it. Be direct so the people you’re dating don’t think you’re putting on a show. If it scares them away, you haven’t found the right person.
Meet Sooner Rather Than Later
The longer you delay meeting, the more anxiety you may have. Instead, get it over with so your expectations of the person aren’t unrealistic. Of course, always ensure that you prioritize your safety and comfort.
Try Meditating
A great way to improve your confidence is to practice meditating. Do it right before you go out on a date to calm your nerves and relax your heart rate. You can also try repeating positive affirmations to boost your self-esteem and decrease stress. Your outing will likely be much more peaceful and calm.
Don’t Let Rejection Get You Down
As hard as it may be to hear, you won’t be everyone’s cup of tea. Rejection will happen, but it’s what you do with rejection that matters. Not everyone will swipe right, and that’s okay. Keep being the person you are, and embrace your personality.